Gay sex is not that different from sex between a man and a lady.
Gay men are often proud to have some more expertise when it comes to sex. But the power of habits is strong. And habits can turn easily to unawareness.
“Let’s get straight to the point”
A widely spread habit is going straight to oral sex and penetration, saving foreplay for the sake of rush and stress.
You might already guess what this post is going to be about.
Yes, foreplay is something we usually forget. Especially when having a long term relationship. After some time habits can kill passion.
New ideas are always handy and can help us not only rescue a boring bedroom but also return the joy and anticipation of nice, longer and more satisfying sexual encounters. With whoever.
Foreplay is sometimes seen as the mandatory games we have to “go through” before getting to “the point”. Meaning oral sex and penetration.
To Tantra traditions foreplay is more that just a mandatory time. Foreplay is a game in itself. Many couple therapists start forbidding penetration for the couple to focus just on these preliminary games. These games are the trick to heat up your sexual temperature and achieve a much more intense and satisfying “all the way” sexual act.
Foreplay feels much better to many men when there is no pressure to perform oral sex nor penetration. If oral sex and penetration are desire, then it feels much better than just “having to do it” to call it sex.
Foreplay is a wonderful way to connect. It is the first level to share some true and desired intimacy.
In fact to Tantra traditions the foreplay extends to all the time of the day. And foreplay starts with a short message on the phone as “I’m thinking of you”. This anticipates the intimate meeting.
A couple who follows these Tantra concepts will be under the constant effect of foreplay. Isn’t this exciting?
To Tantra the future does not exists. There is only one way to live life to the fullest intensity: living the present moment.
This means while we are enjoying our foreplay we should not be thinking about what’s next. Not only penetration but also washing the dishes, writing a business e-mail or whatever not related to our intimate moment.
It is relevant that our mind is exactly with us at that moment in time. Focusing on our partner and the present moment is the nicest way to enjoy a sweet and intimate foreplay.
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